“Come on Yaar be Positive” we all have heard it many a times from our friends, relatives and dear ones whenever we are under depression or in deep depression. The sole motive behind such thoughts is to motivate us or anybody, to complete his responsibility, who has lost all his hope.
Let take an example we all must have heard the story of “half filled glass of water” which ultimately indicates the mindset of a person. The story is like that: Ones a teacher take a glass filled half with water. Then he asked one of his student to give his(student) opinion on the half filled glass. The student being a child simply replied Sir it is half empty. The teacher then went to another student for his opinion on the glass. The student replied Sir it is half filled with water. The teacher smiled and praised the student for his positive attitude and further taught all the students about benefits of positive thinking.
There is no doubt that most of us go with the opinion of the teacher and all have a positive mindset but think again and then reply whether first student was wrong? Did he really leave no scope of hope? I don’t think so and in my opinion first student was also right and even I would like to say he gives me a rope of hope stronger then the second student. He gives me an opportunity. He said to me look this glass is half empty and you have to fill it full, so you have something to do.
Let’s take another example. In summers of May you went to one of your friend’s house and ask him for a glass of water. Your friend came with a glass of water half filled. You look at the glass half filled and shout at your friend “Come on yaar I am dying with heat and you are still trying to save water, go and bring me a glass full of water”. Now tell me what you see there, it must be a glass of water half filled and you reply to your friend to fill it completely. Now if being of positive mindset you didn’t reply your friend to bring you a full glass of water you shall have been hospitalized suffering from dehydration.
Here my motive is not to demotivate all my friends but what message I want to convey is “It is really good to remain positive in life and look towards life with positive mindset but sometimes it is better to look at the negative sides because at such times only this negative side will help you attain your goals and will increase your confidence for a positive future.


